It all started when she got bullied. She didn’t know what to do or how to react. She couldn’t tell anyone because she was afraid she was going to get in trouble. Bullying is a topic that everyone knows about. Most people have been bullied before and they want to help stop that from happening. Blackhawk Middle School is really serious about bullying. They have an assembly about it every year, and they always encourage people who are getting bullied to come down to the office and tell them so they can stop whatever is happening to you or someone else you know of who is getting bullied.
One 8th grader wants to help stop bulling at Blackhawk Middle School. She said “I want to help stop bulling because I have gotten bullied before and I know how it feels.” She wants to get a group of people who have been bullied before and try to help stop this from happening to kids her age. She wants to give these pins away, and whoever has them, they have been bullied before and want to help stop bulling. Soon she is hoping that almost every student has one and helps stop bulling at other schools too.
Cyberbullying is one type of bulling that a lot people have gone through. It includes the bully making fun of them by texting them, posting things online about them, and the bully chatting with his or her friends making fun of the person who is getting bullied. Cyberbullying is serious because it is online and it goes viral and everyone can see it. One part of cyberbullying is posting embarrassing pictures of the person who is getting bullied on the internet or on social media. With cyberbullying it could always backfire on the bully. They could always get an embarrassing picture posted of them. One former Blackhawk student expresses how she feels about bullying and tells how she got bullied. ” I got cyberbullied in 7th grade by a few 8th graders. They posted embarrassing pictures of me and put me in their group chat just so I could see what bad things they said about me.”
Physical bullying is another type of bullying. Physical bullying includes physically hitting someone, taking their personal things. Some examples of physical bullying are stealing, shoving, hitting, fighting, and ruining someone’s personal belongings. Another former Blackhawk student tells how she got physically bullied, ” When I was in 7th grade some 7th grade girls physically pushed me into lockers and took my things and starting running away with it. I got bullied because I was short for how old I was. They used to call me ugly and short. It really hurt my feelings.”
Another type of bullying in schools is verbal bullying. Verbal bullying is when the bully calls you names right to your face. Some examples of verbal bullying are insults, teasing, name calling, and threats. The victim might not react right away to this type of bullying, but later their grades and relationships may suffer. One student that is going to Blackhawk right now expresses how he got verbally bullied in 6th grade. ” I got verbally bullied last year in 6th grade by two boys that were bigger and taller than me. They used to threaten to hurt me and they would call me bad names. I was so scared of them, but now I don’t care what people say and I am my own person.”
The last type of bullying is social bullying. Social bullying is leaving people out and making rumors about them. Some examples of social bullying are spreading rumors about another person, purposely leaving someone out of something, and embarrassing a person in public. Something that also falls in the social bullying category is a person encouraging them to avoid a certain person or group. A 6th grader at Blackhawk wants to tell her story of when she got socially bullied. ” When I got bullied I was in 5th grade and this group of girls were saying I had to pick between my best friends or them and they were going to post embarrassing things about me if I didn’t pick them. They also embarrassed me in front of the whole school by yelling things about me in the hallway. I have gone through bullying before, and if you are going through it, try to stop it from happening.”
These stories show that bullying is serious and you should not bully people. Just because you got bullied doesn’t mean you should bully other people. If you have gotten bullied before you need to help stop it not make it worse by picking on other people. Bullying is serious because it can lead to suicide, bad grades, or worse. Let’s all help stop bullying and we won’t have as many grades dropping and people suffering.